It is with profound sorrow that we share the passing of Candelaria “Lala” Helen Willingham, who was called peacefully home to God on Jan. 5, 2025, surrounded by her family. Lala was born on Feb. 18, 1947, to Ernest Rivas Sr. and Amanda Julia Stollsteimer in Pagosa Springs, Colo.
Lala was well known for cooking at Jan’s Cafe and Al’s west. She loved to crochet, play bingo and listen to live music, with Variety Express and Los Mitotitos among her favorites. She was also a passionate supporter of the Pagosa Springs High School basketball teams.
On Feb. 22, 1974, Lala married the love of her life, Jim Willingham. Lala was known for her strong will, unwavering determination and love of her family.
Lala is survived by her husband, Jim Willingham; son Tony Rivas (Rena); daughters Dina Brogan (Gary), Destiny Ritchie (Byron) and Desiree Pruitt (Dylan); grandchildren Marcus, Naquita, Eli, Kristi, Adam, Isaac, Vicente, Amanda, Ira, Danielle, Scarlett, Saxson, Dakota and Dryden; brothers and sisters Tito Rivas (Lisa), Joseph Rivas Sr., Freddy Rivas, Marie Rivas, Molly Cotton, Sharon Wilson and Josie Rivas; as well as many nieces and nephews, great grandchildren, and great nieces and nephews.
Lala was preceded by Amanda Stollsteimer, Ernest Rivas, Hank Rivas, Albert Rivas, Leroy Cotton, Grace Vigil, Cody Ahern, Johnny Baca, Tony Lister, Rudy Candelaria and Jordan Rivas.
The rosary will be held on Jan. 30, 2025, at the Immaculate Heart of Mary at 6:30 p.m. The service will be held on Jan. 31, 2025, at 10 a.m. at John Paul II. The reception will follow the service, and will be held at John Paul II.